Forgiveness is not the same as trust.
Forgiveness is instantaneous, trust is not. You can forgive someone
immediately, but trust is build over time. Forgiveness is based on grace and
trust is earned by good deeds. You don’t have to earn forgiveness but you do
have to earn trust.
The majority of people don’t want to
forgive because they think they have to trust the person that wronged them. Not
true. To restore a relationship there needs to be remorse, regret and the
rebuilding of trust. Remember, you can forgive but you don’t have to go back to
the way it was.
With lovingkindness,
jessica@mail.postmanllc.net
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